Current:Home > ContactAaliyah explains leaving 'Love is Blind,' where she stands with Lydia and Uche -MoneySpot
Aaliyah explains leaving 'Love is Blind,' where she stands with Lydia and Uche
View
Date:2025-04-11 17:26:12
Spoiler alert: The following post contains details through Episode 7 of Netflix's "Love is Blind" (now streaming).
There may have been tears, but there are no regrets for Aaliyah Cosby on Season 5 of “Love is Blind.”
In new episodes of the Netflix dating series released Friday, the 29-year-old ICU travel nurse attempts to make things right with her strongest connection in the pods, 34-year-old lawyer Uche Okoroha, after unexpectedly dropping out of the show in Episode 4.
She’d left after “an exchange of words” with her best friend in the pods, 32-year-old geologist Lydia Velez Gonzalez, “that didn’t really go well,” she reveals in Episode 7. But she always intended to keep pursuing a relationship with Uche, who was planning to propose to her the day he found out she’d left.
Ultimately, Uche declares it “over between us” because of her lack of confidence in their relationship.
Earlier this month, USA TODAY spoke with Aaliyah about why she left “Love is Blind” and how she feels about Uche and Lydia now.
Why Aaliyah left ‘Love is Blind’
When Aaliyah left Uche high and dry, she wasn’t leaving behind her relationship.
“I wasn't really thinking about it as if I was leaving the show without him," she says. "I didn't leave the show thinking that I wasn't going to continue with him. I felt like the bond we formed in there was so solid that we would continue regardless of the show.”
In Episode 7, Aaliyah meets Uche for the first time outside the pods and explains that she hasn't been comfortable sharing the women’s quarters with Lydia, who “smothers” her by bringing him up all the time. She even questioned whether Lydia and Uche had planned to ever reconnect on “Love is Blind.”
“It was ruining the experiment for me,” she tells Uche.
Looking back, she tells USA TODAY, “There (were) just so many things that were coming to the surface with the situation regarding him and Lydia, and I just felt like that was the best thing for me.”
Four seasons of love:Which "Love is Blind" couples are still together — and who's not
Aaliyah says Lydia didn’t respect her boundaries
Before she left, Aaliyah and Lydia were close confidantes. Then Uche told Aaliyah that he and Lydia had dated before coming on the show, and the floodgates opened for Lydia, who’d been keeping her and Uche’s past a secret.
Lydia seemed unable to stop herself from telling Aaliyah what it was like dating Uche back in Houston.
“I felt like I had kind of set my boundaries and they weren't being respected by a certain individual. I felt like that wasn't how I wanted to proceed,” Aaliyah says. “I did the best thing for myself. And I don't really regret my decision.”
Since then, Aaliyah says she and Lydia have been able to find some resolution.
“I don't have any anger or animosity towards her. I want her to be happy. And I think we've been able to have some conversations … where we both understand each other's position,” Aaliyah says.
“I've been able to kind of step outside myself and understand both her and Uche's position. And I feel like I've tried to just lead with grace with both of them.”
More:'Love Is Blind' Season 5: Cast, premiere date, trailer, how to watch new episodes
“Love is Blind” episodes 8 and 9 premiere Oct. 6, and the finale is due Oct. 13.
Best shows to watch this fall:What's new on TV amid the Hollywood strike
veryGood! (78)
Related
- All That You Wanted to Know About She’s All That
- Vanderpump Rules: Raquel Leviss Wanted to Be in a Throuple With Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix
- Cuba Gooding Jr. Settles Civil Sexual Abuse Case
- A Tale of Two Leaks: Fixed in California, Ignored in Alabama
- Nearly half of US teens are online ‘constantly,’ Pew report finds
- In a First, California Requires Solar Panels for New Homes. Will Other States Follow?
- McConnell’s Record on Coal Has Become a Hot Topic in His Senate Campaign
- South Dakota Backs Off Harsh New Protest Law and ‘Riot-Boosting’ Penalties
- Meet the volunteers risking their lives to deliver Christmas gifts to children in Haiti
- The Ultimatum: Queer Love Relationship Status Check: Who's Still Together?
Ranking
- EU countries double down on a halt to Syrian asylum claims but will not yet send people back
- The Petroleum Industry May Want a Carbon Tax, but Biden and Congressional Republicans are Not Necessarily Fans
- No major flight disruptions from new 5G wireless signals around airports
- What the BLM Shake-Up Could Mean for Public Lands and Their Climate Impact
- Buckingham Palace staff under investigation for 'bar brawl'
- Former Exxon Scientists Tell Congress of Oil Giant’s Climate Research Before Exxon Turned to Denial
- Cuba Gooding Jr. Settles Civil Sexual Abuse Case
- 5 Ways Trump’s Clean Power Rollback Strips Away Health, Climate Protections
Recommendation
Cincinnati Bengals quarterback Joe Burrow owns a $3 million Batmobile Tumbler
Brooklyn Startup Tackles Global Health with a Cleaner Stove
The Trump Administration Moves to Open Alaska’s Tongass National Forest to Logging
Shop the Top-Rated Under $100 Air Purifiers That Are a Breath of Fresh Air
Brianna LaPaglia Reveals The Meaning Behind Her "Chickenfry" Nickname
Biden’s Climate Credibility May Hinge on Whether He Makes Good on U.S. Financial Commitments to Developing Nations
Federal Courts Help Biden Quickly Dismantle Trump’s Climate and Environmental Legacy
Jennie Ruby Jane Shares Insight Into Bond With The Idol Co-Star Lily-Rose Depp